As far as the daycare thing goes, we have a few leads. The fact of the matter is that we are going to have to shell out a couple thousand dollars a month and we will have to compromise on some of the things that we wanted. A nanny or fancy daycare is out of the question due to financial constraints. That means I'm probably going to have to let go of the cloth diaper dream. Most of the affordable day care centers won't do cloth diapers. I am still holding out hope that we will find someone that will. But, we do have a few options and are hoping to have something nailed down by the end of the month.
We made our first trip to the car dealership to look around. We were thinking a van would probably be the way to go. We began by looking at a brand new version of the #1 selling mini van in America, the Toyota Sienna. Let me assure you that I am understating things when I say, I HATED IT. The sheer size of the vehicle gave me anxiety. It's like driving around a living room. Not to mention, the average 18-20 MPG was really upsetting. Currently, we drive a Prius that averages 48-50 MPG. I had no idea that I would have such an aversion to it until we got inside of one. It's not that I think I'm too cool for a van; that problem could be solved with a big fancy SUV. It's that I hate really large vehicles. They make me feel uncomfortable.
This realization sent me on a frantic research mission to find car seats that fit three across in a vehicle. If I'm not willing to drive a car big enough for a third row, that means that we have to be able to fit all of the kiddos in one row. It wasn't easy to find them, but there are car seats that are designed to be much slimmer and that will fit three in a row in a car. Thank goodness. Yes, I realize that it will be a challenge to get to the center seat, but that's a sacrifice I'm willing to make. Now it's just a matter of finding a vehicle with enough storage space to put all of the baby things in. I think we've found our perfect match in the Prius V. It has the width for three car seats and 34.3 cubic feet of storage (that's only 4.8 less than a van!). So, we are probably going to save for a few months and go that route. I would like to take this moment to add a quick disclaimer. My feeling about large vehicles is in no way a judgment on all of my amazing mom friends that have them, it is simply a personal preference.
On Wednesday, we headed to Memorial Hospital to the Maternal Fetal Medicine department for my very first visit with the perinatologist. Yay! I'm no longer a reproductive medicine patient! I'm a future mom! This place was super fancy with a lot of amazing technology. They started off with an ultrasound to make sure everyone was doing ok. The change in a week and a half was astonishing. All three babies were doing well with their development being right on track and their heartbeats nice and strong. They actually looked like little babies! They were even flapping their little arms and kicking their tiny legs. Absolutely breathtaking. We go back on February 27th for a very long appointment with lots of testing. That will be the longest that I've gone without seeing the babies on the ultrasound. It makes me a little nervous, but now that my belly is growing by the day, I have another indicator of how they're doing. Tomorrow marks the 10 week point, and I will start taking weekly belly pictures. I'll also try my best to blog a little more frequently so the posts aren't quite so long. Here's a sneak peak of our little angels.
Baby A didn't want to get in a good position for pictures. |
Baby B was moving so much all the pics were blurry. |
Baby C is our photogenic child. |
This is fabulous news! I'm so glad things are progressing nicely. As for the big vehicle? I was against them for a long time until I ended up driving on a highway between a bunch of trucks in one. I felt a lot safer in the bigger vehicle. Now that I've gone big, I don't know if I'll ever go back. I'm glad you found something you like. Those Prius for any family cars are nice. Good luck on the hunt! And even better luck with your pregnancy! I hope it continues in a positive fashion...you're doing awesome!
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